This can get confusing and exhausting because there’s a lack of communication between you. But, for men, once they feel a little out of control, they pull back.
Sure, he may really like you, but if he feels weak or emotionally irrational—he freaks out. And who knows, maybe he had a bad relationship in the past or mommy/daddy issues. You don’t really know where this fear comes from. But I know you want to figure out what’s going on so you can make a decision.
If he likes you, but he’s scared, then maybe it’s time for a conversation. If he’s just playing with you, then it’s time to move on. So, here are the signs he is afraid to fall for you. Because not all men know what they want
#1 You feel it. I always say this because it’s true. If you feel it, then it’s probably true. Your intuition is strong and should never be ignored. Now, it doesn’t mean that he’s going to make a move; that’s a different story. If you feel like there’s something going on with him, well, you’re not wrong.
#2 He acts differently around you. When he’s with his friends or other people, he’s completely cool. But when he’s around you, there’s this shift of energy. Now, when he’s around you, he’s either laying on the charm or nervous. Both are signs he’s into you but afraid of what to do or how he feels.
#3 It’s all mixed signals. Usually, men who are afraid to fall for you, even though they like you, will give you a big mess of mixed signals. One day they’re hot. The next day, they’re cold. This is why many of us struggle with “reading the signs.” But that’s because they’re having problems understanding and accepting their own feelings.
#4 He’s checking you out. Maybe you didn’t think he was into you, but if you caught him eyeing you, well, there’s your sign. It’s an easy way to tell if someone is into you. You don’t stare at people you’re not attracted to, right? Exactly. If his eyes are on you, there’s a reason why.
#5 When there’s a moment to make a move, he freezes. There’s usually a moment when the two of you are looking at each other, and you feel that something is going to happen. At that moment, usually, something doeshappen. But he’s terrified, so instead, he freezes and will change the subject or leave. And this is clearly one of those strong signs he is afraid to fall for you, whatever his reason may be.
#6 He has a jealous side. When you talk about other guys in front of him, he gets a little jealous. Though he’ll never admit it, you know why he’s jealous. If he’s changing the subject or unable to control his feelings, well, he’s not pleased. But if he’s not making a move, then he has nothing to complain about!
#7 He’s touchy. He’ll hold your hand; he’ll kiss you and hug you. But then there’s a limit. You feel like he puts up a wall when it gets to a certain part. And that’s because he does. He doesn’t want you to get the wrong idea even though he’s clearly playing with you.
#8 He’s overprotective. Though he’s not admitting that he has feelings for you, he’s very protective. Not in an obsessive way, that’s a red flag. But, for example, he’ll walk you to your car or to your front door. Going that little extra mile shows you that he cares.
#9 He’s not taking it to the next step. If he really wanted to be with you, he would rush to take things to the next step. But instead, he’s turtle slow. He’s not in any hurry to turn your relationship serious. And this is because he’s afraid of his feelings and isn’t ready to be with you. In other words, he has some issues.
#10 He can’t handle any future conversations. Maybe you brought up an idea to travel during the summer, and though he seems excited, he also looks like he’s freaking out. And that’s because he is. Yeah, he likes you, but he can’t handle it. He’s terrified.
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