The curtain comes down, the screen flickers and the credits roll.
But where the fairytale ends, life begins.
But seriously how happy is ‘happily ever after’? How real is the reel life that glorifies just attaining the girl or the guy? Life is so much more. It is also about keeping it together.
So you’ve found your prince charming, or won the hand of the lovely maiden.
But continuing to live happily after the fairy tale ends is another story.
And unless you pay attention to your relationship, you’ll realize that there’s a thin line that prevents a happy fairy tale from becoming a tragic tale.
Why do we need space in a relationship?
The best moments of our lives are the ones we’ve shared with someone special. Some of the happiest memories you may have usually involves a loved one. Life is always great if you have a special someone to share it with. But then again, too much togetherness can ruin a perfect relationship too. Keeping a relationship alive needs memories and special moments. As much as it may be a couple thing, you need individual memories and special moments too. To keep a relationship fresh and exciting, you need to experience things separately and then come together. This can certainly make you relish your togetherness more.
Everybody needs space, and you need to know how to give space in a relationship and accept space, even if only to take a breath. You can’t be locked in a kiss forever. You have to come up for air. Love needs space to grow.
Even saplings have to be planted with adequate space between them if they have to take a firm root and grow strong. And when they grow, their branches may intermingle to provide shade and beauty, but their roots still need space.
The need for space in love
To have a perfect relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to understand how to give space in a relationship.
By doing that, you can also avoid the pain of having to hear your loved one say the words that seem to ring like the death knell to your relationship, “I want my space!”
But even if you ever heard your partner say that, don’t press the panic button yet. “I want some time alone”, or “I need some space”, or “I need to focus on my career”, are normal and valid cries for help and not cries of rejection.
Your partner may be screaming for space in a relationship, even if they don’t say it out loud. Does your partner enjoying doing things by themselves, or do they prefer doing something together, with you? That could reveal a lot about your partner’s personality and how independent they are.
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