Love Is More Complex Than Most heartsRealize
Do you know what love is? I am sure most of us have heard of this common term and also experienced it on some level. I’m not talking about crushes that we may have had on our classmates when we were growing up and trying to finish school. I am also not talking about the kind of love that we see
romanticized in movies all the time. That kind of love does not exist in the real world. Instead of talking about what the dictionary definition of love is, I am going to give my perspective and analysis as to what this powerful feeling and emotion is. I am not the best relationship expert out there but I have learned about love from what life has taught me. Here are some of the things that I have come up with based on my life experience, reading and research.
Love Is Both a Feeling and an Emotion
Love is actually not only a feeling that we have for someone, but it is also an emotion. It is an extremely positive emotion that most of us have felt for another person. This feeling and emotion can be caused by a variety of factors. Some of us are attracted to and fall in love with another person because of how they look on the outside. While this is certainly a factor for love to be established, the old saying that “looks aren’t everything” applies here. If looks were the only criterion for love, that factor alone is very superficial and it does not last. With the way that love is glamorized in the media it is no surprise that many people have the wrong idea of what love is. Love is so much more than sex. If you are addicted to sex then you don’t really know what true love is.
Love represented by hearts
Love is them most positive and powerful feeling that can be expressed by humans.
Unconditional Love: Part 1
Some of us are attracted to and fall in love with a person because of how they make us feel when we are around them. Their very presence causes us to feel that we are worthy of attention. Their physical presence also causes us to feel their positive energy, kindness and caring. It is possible to also love someone if you know that they are responsible adults who strive to make sure that they will be the best that they can be. When you accept someone for whom they are and want the very best for them even if they have to be far away from you this is getting into the true love that I call unconditional love.
This kind of love is the true love because when you love someone unconditionally, you don’t expect anything in return. When you love someone unconditionally, this love comes from deep within your heart and soul. This is the essence of who you are. You are a human being that has a spirit. Your spirit wants to love and be loved. I will admit that I am not the biggest expert on love. I have never been married but I am mature enough that I analyze things in a deep, philosophical way. Yes, it is hard to love someone unconditionally because that person may sometimes do or say something that might turn you off. But my feeling is that unconditional love is the best kind of love to have because this kind of love is sweet, pure and genuine.
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