Side effects of confusions in a relationship

Feelings of something missing can be due to our being disconnected from our heart's desire. We can only become emotionally available when we understand what we think is lacking.

We need to focus on what is really important to avoid being confused. We need to know when we are wasting time in an unacceptable relationship and we need to have the wherewithal to end it or to fix it.

We shouldn’t give too much thought to the issues though. By thinking too much about it we find all the reasons why it's no good. Sometimes that may be important to do. But if we do it all the time we may end up missing out on spending a lifetime with someone we can get along well with.

We’ll know it’s right when we accept the other person as they are, despite our fears and uncertainties.

When we do realize we’re in a wonderful relationship, we need to be available to the concept that this is the one, and that we want the relationship forever.