1. Tell him it hurts you.
2. Ask him what's going on. What does his ex mean to him?
3. Tell him you need his help being comfortable with their friendship (if you're sure that's what it is).
4. If he admits he has unresolved feelings for his ex, then you need to decide if you still want to be in the relationship.
5. Hear him out and take some time to think things over.
Can I Make Him Stop Talking to His Ex?
At the end of the day, you can't prohibit anyone from doing something. There really are two possible situations here:
1. He is still talking with his ex, and there is no possibility that they will rekindle their relationship.
2. He is still talking to his ex, and it's possible they may get back together.
Either way, he is the one who ultimately has control over this. The only thing y ou can control is whether you tolerate it or not. If you try to forbid him from talking to his ex, whether it is justified or you are just acting out of insecurity, you are fighting a losing battle. What's the point of a relationship if you can't trust your partner to make the right decision on their own, after all?
Reasons Your Boyfriend Might Be in Touch With His Ex
1. They have kids together and have to talk often about custody issues.
2. He's just friends with her. It's possible that he just likes the other women he has dated and that there's no hanky-panky.
3. They broke up recently and still have stuff to work out. In this scenario, there's a pretty good chance that he might be into her romantically.
4. He was friends with her for a long time, and they have other friends in common. Lots of shared history but no romance.
5. He was the one who got dumped and still carries a torch for her. Watch out!
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